Dealing with the stress

Nowadays, everywhere are always can feel stress and seem to surround with us. No matter in your job or life. It can be caused by something positive or negative. It is not always bad; sometimes it can actually be essential or helpful. So, to learn confront stress and dealing with stress is very important for everyone.

First, to understand that what caused stress then take a deep breathing and tell self that everything will be fine and do not be nervous. This way can made you clam down then you can easy to know what the trouble and how to cope with.

Second, do exercise also a good way to deal with stress. Just to do that you like or usually do in free time. For instance, you can scream, it also can say that it is kind of exercise, but keeping in mind, do not bother other person. In this way you can relieve stress. If you can swim, I think that it is a good way to deal with stress.

In short, when the stress knock door, do not be nervous. I usually take a deep breathing, try to clam down and take easy as you can. After work, I must to go swimming or playing tennis that both are my favorite exercise. After that, I must felt good or better. It is just my way.

New Year’s Resolutions

The 2009 years will be passing and the 2010 will be coming then I will be thirty-six years old. So my new year’s resolution is to have a girl friend who will be a spouse.
First, I want to tell her, I love you. I admire a girl whose name is Huiyun and we work in a bank, but she works in another branch. I want to tell her, I falling in love with you.
Second, I hope that we will be a steady.
Finally, I want to found a family. I like a family feel that include wife and children. In the pass, I think that I am young and still early to me. But it is true that time is flying.
So, I do not care about the face that whether she will accept me or not. I have been deciding to tell her, I love you.

Have you ever had to overcome a problem or difficult situation at some time in your life

Did you watch Japanese soap opera that is “101st proposal of marriage which is talk about a man deeply fall in love with a woman and she refused him proposal of marriage many time. On December 1999, I fall in love with my coworker, because we work together all day. Then I courageously talked to him and she talked to me that is impossible. But I still pursue him for three years. During the three years, I never interrupt. The finally result is that we still are good friend and coworker. I felt sad and dispiriting during the three years. After that, I spend a lot time to treat myself.
We are working in a bank, she is a new employee and I have to teach him how to do. We must face and service customer every day which we overcome any problem together. Day by day, I have to be used work with him together. If she left seat or took a rest for a log time that I always felt uncomfortable and I think that I fall in love with him so I decide to talk him my feeling and hope to accept me, agree me to be my girl friendly. Of course, she refused me, but I did not give up and try to do any way any things I can do that just about him. Then I only got hurt day by day, year over year. I spent all time on him and I can to do the other things. On day, my friend told me that you could not keep doing and have to give up because I waste many time on him. This is a most problem in the pass that I knew that I have to fine newly live. So I decide to give up, now we are a good friend and can talked any thing. Just to be a good friend.
After I decide give up, I am very lucky that I have a good friend who encourage me uninterrupted when I sad and disappointed. I try to do other things like learning new thing, did not call her and try to be a general friend. An idiom say “if you want to forgot a person, time is the best medicine” finally I made it, now we become a good friend.
Before I give up that still deeply trust that an idiom say “where is there a will, there is a way” I can made it, she will be my girl friend. Now I still deeply trust “where is there a will, there is a way”, because I overcome bereft of love that injure my heart.

Green Island

Last week, every classmate introduced many beautiful places. Green Island is the only one of place where I likes.

In my memory, The Government often entertained eldest brother or sister to live and to eat in Green Island. Sometimes we can got news about that the government to crack down on crime on TVand I felt a song that green island serenade is very pleasant to hear.

According to classmate reported that Green Island has many resort. For instance, Nanliao harbor, Green Island lighthouse and 朝日hot spring. They gave a suggestion that we can tour around the island and do night exploration.

I think that green island has been polluted by human and it is a beautiful and mysterious place in Taiwan. So, if I have chance, I will to go The Green Island.